Common Travel Scams

Friendship Bracelet Scam

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Paris, the City of Light, is renowned for its stunning architecture, rich history, and romantic ambiance. However, like many popular tourist destinations, it also has its share of scams targeting unsuspecting visitors.

One of the most persistent and troublesome scams in Paris is the infamous "Friendship Bracelet" scam, particularly prevalent around the Sacré-Cœur Basilica in Montmartre.

How the Scam Works

The friendship bracelet scam typically unfolds as follows:

  1. Targeting: Scammers identify tourists, often those who appear distracted or unfamiliar with the area.

  2. Approach: They aggressively approach their targets, sometimes in groups, making it difficult to avoid them.

  3. Physical Contact: In a brazen move, the scammer grabs the tourist's wrist without consent.

  4. Quick Action: Before the victim can react, the scammer ties a simple bracelet or string around their wrist.

  5. Demand for Payment: Once the bracelet is attached, the scammer demands payment, often at an inflated price.

  6. Intimidation: If the tourist refuses to pay, the scammer may become confrontational or use guilt tactics to pressure them.

Why It's a Problem

This scam is particularly troubling for several reasons:

Invasion of Personal Space: The physical grabbing of a person's wrist is a clear violation of personal boundaries. As one Reddit user recounted, "We were approached by a group of them there too. We kept saying no and walking and one of them grabbed my partner's shoulders and he firmly said no again."

Intimidation: Scammers often work in groups, which can be intimidating, especially for solo travelers or those unfamiliar with the area. The same Reddit user continued, "The dude got in our face and asked if we wanted to die. We kept walking and he followed us for a bit."

Persistence: Even after refusal, some scammers follow tourists, continuing to harass them for money.

Tarnished Experience: For many visitors, this negative encounter can sour their perception of Paris and leave a lasting negative impression.

Hotspots in Paris

While this scam can occur in various tourist areas around Paris, it is notoriously common in the following locations:

Sacré-Cœur Basilica: The steps leading up to the church are a prime location for these scammers. The original poster specifically mentioned, "I'm stunned that the police don't take a harsher stance against the guys that literally block the road up to the sacré coeur and will grab your wrist to try to scam you into buying a bracelet."

Montmartre Area: The streets surrounding Sacré-Cœur are also frequent hunting grounds.

Other Tourist Sites: Similar scams may occur near the Eiffel Tower, Louvre, and other popular attractions.

How to Protect Yourself

To avoid falling victim to the friendship bracelet scam:

  1. Stay Alert: Be aware of your surroundings, especially in crowded tourist areas.

  2. Avoid Eye Contact: Don't engage with persistent street vendors or individuals trying to get your attention.

  3. Keep Your Hands Close: If approached, keep your hands close to your body or in your pockets.

  4. Use Firm Refusal: A strong, clear "No" or "Non" can deter many scammers. As one Reddit user advised, "Literally say a single word in passable french to them and they'll leave you be. They're only after tourists."

  5. Walk with Purpose: Move confidently and purposefully, especially in known hotspots for this scam.

  6. Alternative Routes: Consider taking less crowded paths or using alternative entrances to popular sites. A helpful Reddit user suggested, "You can completely avoid them by going up to Sacre Coeur around the side/back of the building. Take the staircase called 'Calvaire Street Stairs' and it takes you to a really lovely area."

  7. Travel in Groups: When possible, visit tourist attractions with companions.

  8. Report Incidents: If you experience harassment or witness the scam, report it to local authorities.

What to Do If Approached

If you find yourself targeted by a bracelet scammer:

  1. Don't Allow Physical Contact: If someone reaches for your wrist, pull away immediately. One Reddit user shared their experience: "I yanked my hand as hard as I could, they took offense to it, but screw them, you do not touch people."

  2. Be Loud and Clear: Say "No" loudly and clearly. This can also alert others around you.

  3. Walk Away: Don't hesitate to turn and walk in the opposite direction.

  4. Seek Help: If you feel threatened, approach nearby shopkeepers, other tourists, or find local police.

  5. Don't Argue: If a bracelet is placed on you, remove it immediately and return it without engaging in debate.

Understanding the Bigger Picture

It's important to note that while this scam is frustrating and can be intimidating, it's part of a larger socio-economic issue. Many of these scammers are individuals from marginalized communities trying to make a living.

However, this doesn't justify their actions or mean that tourists should tolerate harassment. As one Reddit user pointed out, "Because leniency is the default policy everywhere in France. The judicial system is holding with bits of strings, the prisons are full, judgements are given with sometimes years in delays."

Enjoying Paris Safely

Don't let the fear of scams deter you from enjoying the beauty of Paris. The vast majority of your experiences in the city will likely be positive. By staying informed, alert, and prepared, you can navigate the city safely and focus on creating wonderful memories of your visit to one of the world's most beautiful capitals.

Remember, being aware and cautious doesn't mean being paranoid. Paris is generally a safe city for tourists, and with these tips in mind, you can confidently explore all that the City of Light has to offer.

As the original poster concluded, "Again I love Paris and it's probably nuanced to solve this issue, but I'd love to hear what locals have to say about this." While the bracelet scam remains a persistent problem, it's just one small aspect of the rich and vibrant experience that Paris offers to its millions of visitors each year.


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